Friday, May 15, 2009

This is me

I was talking to a friend last night and it was brought to my attention that while by blog may show off the adventurous side of me I don't share much about me personally! So I'm going to share a little bit about me in this post.

I am a pure hearted, down home, country girl, raised on a farm, in a little town where everyone knows your name. I spent most of my youth on my families farm in the Northwest and a little bit of it traveling. We always had family and friends around. I loved the bonfires, parties, BBQ's and card games, we never needed a reason to get together and hang out when the work was done. We would cook a big meal, pour iced beverages and visit until we were to exhausted to move. Then we would crash where ever!

I had a good group of friends, most of them were guys and a couple of girls , we were fun and playful. We got into a little trouble from time to time but for the most part we were good kids. I was very young when I had sex for the first time. I was with an experienced older boy, he was very tender, giving and so willing to teach me things. That experience made me open to every sexual experience that comes my way...

As an adult I have moved away from the family farm (though my heart is still there) but I go home as often as I can. That old place holds many memories for me. I have moved many time, I have even moved back to my home town a couple of times. I have been in the Midwest for 11 years now, this is where I call home now!

I have a family now but that hasn't slowed me down. I am a family woman by day and a diva by night--so to speak. I love the double life. I am a sexual being. I will have sex anywhere, any time, the only exception is in the presence of children! Though PDA's around the kids are a healthy way for them to get in touch with their own sexuality and let them know it's nothing to be ashamed of...but I'm not going to get on the mom rant!! LOL (that's for you "C")

I love taking pictures and have my picture taken but I do not post pictures of myself and here is why... Any one that knows me knows this but for those that don't let me catch you up...I was dating a guy once, we dated for quite a while. We took pictures of each other all the time and I never thought anything of it. We broke up in October, I moved home, didn't think about him or the pictures again. In December, I was at the bar in my home town with, well, everyone in my home town, including my dad and all the guys I grew up with...lol...Some of the guys were looking at the new calender that was going up behind the bar, they all turned and looked at me like they had seen a ghost and tried to hide the calender before my dad seen it but they didn't succeed. My dad grabbed it from them, grabbed my arm and pulled me out of the bar and asked me what the hell I was thinking. At that point I didn't know what was going on yet. My dad held up the calendar and low and behold, there I was Miss July for the whole world to see. I about died!!! My dad was holding a naked picture of me!! And the whole bar had seen it!!! And this had gone out to Oh My God how many people!?!?! I was beside my self! I couldn't go back into the bar, I couldn't look at my dad for quite a while. Those pictures popped up for years in calendars and mags, the ass that I had dated submitted them everywhere. (My guy friends were on a quest to collect them all....lol....thanks guys) After the initial embarrassment or shock wore off I just let it all roll off my back but I don't make the same mistakes twice!!! It's hard to live something like that down in a small town!!!

Like I said earlier most of my friends are guys so I tend to think like a guy when it comes to most thing...
sex--It's a physical thing, no emotions, I think about it all the time and I will do it any where any time-and when it's over, it's over, I do not need to cuddle but if you need to I will!
relationships--Don't cling to me, suffocate me, smother me, and I will return the favor! I will give you my all but can it wait 'til after the race!! I don't need flowers I just need your touch!
women--Vavavavooooom!!!! Need I say anything else!!
men--High five, woohoo, did you see that?...lol
food--good home cooking, surrounded by friends and family
booze--let it flow, and if I can lick it off a hot chick...even better
etc...

I don't need a quiet candle light dinner in a five star restaurant with roses and wine to make me feel special. I am secure in who I am and don't need validation. I am happy sharing a plate full of ribs and a pitcher of beer at a local pub and grill. Licking the BBQ sauce off your fingers as we enjoy our meal and each others company...now that is a romantic dinner. Follow that up with a night of wild love making and we have a great evening. I'm a simple girl........but I clean up real nice too. I can do the nice dress and heals and I rock them by the way!!! But I prefer my jeans and a tank top with a button up over it!

I like to live on the edge...push the limits....meet new people!!! And no matter how far from home I get I stay in touch with my friends and family! So this is me!! I am an open book, you want to know something...just ask!!!

2 comments:

  1. sounds like a good time to me!!!
    I keep turning up photo shopped into Chippendales calenders! They should have to pay me for that huh?

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  2. LOL... I don't think any amount of money would have changed things back then...or even now, I just think I would hate for someone back home (other than the few that know it's here)to open my blog and see a pic..it would be like standing in that bar all over again! Or worse any of the guys from my hubby's work finding it. I just have too much to worry about here...and like I said I don't make the same mistakes twice. Thanks for stopping by hun, Cum by any time!!

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